Beauty of the dark

Why do we usually end up arguing about something ?? Or why do we hate something ?? Is there there anything like beauty in the dark or its just darkness ??

We as human beings have primary instinct of defending our pride or things we think understood well enough. we all konw change is inevitable but then why we are not so welcoming to change or just see the essence of a change ? Why  we turn grumpy, when things dont go the way we plan. can there be solace in loosing a battle ?? I guess we all know the answer to each question but we never put pieces together..

Think of the things that makes you happy and sad at same tym. I guess we all have such moments where love & hate exist together , beauty is result of cruelty , happiness for price of saddening someone or peace of mind at the risk of loosing someone. So for some reason we argue, end result is not fight that we seek. Its the collateral beauty that comes after. What is this collateral beauty or there is anything like that ?

We see things but we dont make sense out of it at tyms. Or sometimes we do things for sake of doing. some ppl can make long run, and then get into trouble. but in the end result is not how much u ran or what could have been done better. Its about the problems we ignored or somethings we missed to see.

We see 'q' of the questions and we start assuming. Either we don't understand it or we dont give it a try. we are so perceptive about the darkness that we fail to see the light (the beauty in the dark). There are many, who are stranded in the dark, seeking for help and many who gave up trying to understand it.

If your ready to give it a try, you'll understand that beauty of the dark is no different. we all live in the same plane where good exist because of bad, sadness as the result of happiness etc. We all are safe betting, acting diplomatic, or just avoiding to take battle. One should try to be opinionated at times and be more assertive. Don't get afraid of the drak, try to find beauty in the dark. Some battle are worth fighting for and maybe beauty of the dark is not cruel at all.

We are all lost in our world. we make compromises that matters to us not what matter to the world.. some of our choice are for greater good, so don't feel bad if world doesn't get you. keep calm and find beauty of the dark and maybe then you dont have you prove it to others.

If you can see whats real in me then maybe beauty wouldn't be so cruel. - mad langer